I think I
have yet to write about one of the most exciting events of my life. I’m
engaged! Haha.. actually quite long already. Since 18 Feb 12.. so I’ve been
engaged for about 4 mths now and in the mist of planning my wedding which will
be in December this year.
When I was
18, I hatched this long-term plan to get married by 25. I was to find a
boyfriend by 20 and date him for 5yrs before getting married. Yes, all my
friends thought it was ridiculous.. this kind of thing cannot force one what.
And a little bit of me also thought it was impossible because I could not
imagine any guy wanting date, let alone marry a nonsensical mess like me. But
God is really so good to me and put Weiquan in my life and now in my 26th
year after dating him for 5yrs, we’re getting married!! I know its really cliché
to say all those things like “he’s my soulmate”, “he’s my better half”, “he
makes me a better person”, “he completes me” .... but he is really all those
things. I still can’t believe I’ve got such a good guy or such a good guy would
want me. Haha.. Not only is he tall, dark and super handsome (hehehe...), he is
kind, gentle, loving, patient, understanding, generous, encouraging, mature,
responsible and intelligent. No matter how naughty I am, he still loves me.
He is
deathly afraid of tickles.... and because I know that, I will always sneak an
attack on him when he least expects cos it is just so funny I can’t help myself.
This is maybe 8 out of 10 times we meet. If you are a guy you think you can
stand it a not? Haha... but he can... There was once he ate like 90% of a macdonalds
hash brown i really wanted to eat and I cried for half an hour. Most guys would
think I’m crazy and ignore me.. but he comforted me even tho he must have
thought I was mad. Than there was that time where I bought a Ukulele and I was
SO EXCITED about it. He was taking a nap and I woke him up with all the
practising. Instead of chiding me for disturbing him with my horrendous music,
he said I was so talented for learning how to play twinkle twinkle little stars
in 2hrs (i think maybe 5yr old also can do this). He really very too good to be true hor! haha..
And the
proposal....which he spent so much effort on. He is really quite shy and hates
to plan parties or events, but for me, he started planning the proposal 2mths
before and went to reece the location a few times. And way before this, he
bought a diamond and custom made a ring for me, which is so beautiful I could
just look at it for hours. Haha.. Anyway, he recruited his scout friends who
are such great buddies to help him out. It is extremely difficult to surprise
me as I am always snooping around his things. But he managed to hide this one
by telling me loads of believable lies. For example, he was making these huge Styrofoam
words “will you marry me” and i saw loads of Styrofoam in his study and when I
asked him what those were, he said it was his sister’s things for her company’s
D&D and told me not to touch them. Than there was once he got a sun burn
from a recee at sentosa (the proposal venue) and I asked him why he was
sunburnt, he said he was out at the aircraft hanger the whole day and I bought
it. Sometimes I wonder if i trust him too much or if he is a really good
liar... I hope its the former. Hahaha..Anyway, on 18 Feb, we spent the entire
day at sentosa and his friends came in the evening and secretly set up
everything. Finally when it was close to sun set, he brought me to the location
and surprised me with the huge words floating in the water, flowers, champagne
n the RING! His friends took photos and videos for us. Even though we ended the
evening with dinner with his family (cos it was his sister’s b’day) instead of
having dinner with our friends (which would have been the ideal situation), I
am still so touched he spent so much effort.
I really
don’t know what I did to deserve such a wonderful guy like him and I am ecstatic
that we’re gona be stuck together for the rest of our lives! :) haha..
Below is
the video of the proposal that weiquan did, for your entertainment. Haha.. As you can tell.. I was not expecting this and was in a very dishevelled state after a whole day at the beach.
